I am told there is a special perch in hell for anyone who speaks ill of the country’s largest Christian denomination on the eve of Holy Week. It’s a risk I am willing to take, because I’ve really had it with corporate Catholicism and its relentless and unforgiving campaign against the victims of pedophile priests. This is a tragedy of gigantic proportions that keeps finding new ways of inflicting pain on those whose suffering is beyond comprehension.
In the beginning, there was the cover up. The Catholic hierarchy was well aware that many of its priests were molesting and raping children. For years, the Church did everything possible to keep the sexual attacks quiet, moving its collared pedophiles from parish to parish when things got hot, letting them start from scratch with a new crop of unsuspecting altar boys.
That routine began to slowly fail in the 1980s when, one by one, victims of the Church’s atrocity stepped out of the shadows with stories the bishops could no longer silence. According to informed estimates, 17,651 American children were sodomized by their parish priest, a number that keeps growing as people now in their 50s and 60s finally come to grips with the pain they’ve silently carried for decades.
Until a few days ago, I figured this story had ended, except for the healing. I hadn’t thought much about it since I saw “Spotlight”, the 2015 film based on the Boston Globe’s stellar coverage of this nightmarish scandal. Then I came across a local news item about the Maryland Legislature finally passing a bill to extend the statute of limitations on filing child molestation suits. It was an intriguing piece. A legislator had tried unsuccessfully for years to change the law so that adults had more time to sue over childhood sexual assaults. The old law banned such litigation after the victim’s 25th birthday. The rationale for the change seemed solid: abused children bury the pain and trauma for decades. By the time they are ready to deal with it, the filing deadline has passed. The bill’s sponsor should know. C.T. Wilson, a Democrat from Charles, MD, was repeatedly raped by his adoptive father between the ages of 8 and 16.
As I read the story, I couldn’t figure out what the controversy was about. The bill struck me as one of those motherhood-and-apple-pie issues that should have unanimous support. Yet, until this year, the measure couldn’t even get a committee hearing. Ten inches into the story, the mystery was solved: “Wilson’s bill had been strongly opposed by the Catholic Church.” It passed this time with the Church’s blessing, only after Wilson amended it so that it would not apply to prior victims. The new law extends the age limit for filing child molestation suits from 25 to 38 only for those going forward. The Church managed to block all of its past victims from filing suit.
Christians will spend this coming week celebrating the resurrection of their savior, the original advocate for restorative justice, a preacher who told his followers to be peacemakers and reconcilers in order to transform brokenness and effect healing. Meanwhile, Catholic leaders are expending political capital to deny victims of its despicable sexual assault debacle access to the only forum that offers even a modicum of healing. Like it did in the beginning, and has ever since, the Roman Catholic Church has been anything but Christ-like when it comes to the thousands of children raped and assaulted by its priests.
That’s not to say that the Church hasn’t paid a price for its sins. According to one estimate, the scandal has cost U.S. Catholics nearly $4 billion. Bankruptcy has been declared in 13 dioceses. Some of the largest losses came in states that lifted, at least temporarily, the statute of limitations on sexual assault suits. That’s why the Church is trying to block further litigation by spending millions of dollars on legislative lobbying in heavily Catholic states like New York and Pennsylvania. From a business standpoint, it is easy to understand the desire to stop the bleeding. Clearly, barricading the courthouse door in order to turn off the spigot of compensatory and punitive damages helps the Church’s bottom line. But for a religious organization in the business of absolution, the strategy is far more Machiavellian than Christian.
Granted, tort law is not a perfect venue for closure. But, thanks to the Church’s earlier choices, it is the only place offering Catholic molestation victims a shot at justice. In the early 1980s, when the tip of the scandalous iceberg was first noticed, a group of priests, led by Dominican Father Thomas Doyle, drafted a manual for dealing with the problem. It called for immediate ministering to the victims, paying for their therapy and counseling, rooting out the offending priests and the bishops who covered for them, all as a way of saying this should never happen again. Their proposal was rejected by the U.S. Conference of Bishops. The Church thought it would be better off taking its chances with the courts and confidential settlement agreements. Billions of dollars later, it learned how foolish that decision was. As Fr. Doyle told the National Catholic Reporter, “The civil law arena has been the only path whereby victims and survivors could pursue justice with hope of success because the courts and the American legal world represent a power that cannot be controlled or compromised by the institutional church.”
Thousands of broken men and women, sexually assaulted by priests during their childhood, have carried their tortuous psychic and emotional wounds into old age. The courts are their only chance of being heard and at least partially healed. That could cost the Church another billion, a heavy cross to bear. Then again, it is worth noting, particularly during Holy Week, bearing a heavy cross is not foreign territory to Christians.
Well said Mr Nelson, I haven’t heard it put better. I was just very disappointed the new law in Maryland was only 20 years from the age of majority…yes this new law hardly went far enough. It took a survivor as legislator to get anything moving…how sad indeed. Even the people in the pews, by vast majority cannot believe our Church officials would oppose the elimination of SOL’s for a child sexually abused.
But I want you to know the same scenario is right now being played out in NJ too. Where the Catholic Conference has hired the most powerful lobbyists in this state, The Princeton Affairs Group, to fend off our attempts at restoring justice. They have convinced our Senate President Sweeney to block bill S280 progress at every point and he will not even allow it to come up for a committee hearing. Left to Languish in the Senate Judiciary committee….as NJ law makers protect powerful institutions instead of our children. Please sir…look into it and write about that one as well.
we need to go deeper into the separation of church and state and other issues that are being ignored and why the catholic church is even allowed to pay millions to lobby against STATE GOVERNMENT and national government SOL bills….
Why are they allowed in to public law reform..
They are a religion and church tax exempt yet our government gives them power to manipulate and exploit our laws and people… and pays them billions a year in tax payer money for their “charities” and for their school children ..
The USA is NOT a catholic country.. i read statistics on the number of catholics here and it showed they arent even half or a third of this country yet they are imposiong themselves on us at a terrifying rate…. stop enabling them… if catholic politicians and lawmakers, doctors, lawyers teachers etc.. cannot function without bowing down to their bishops and popes and cardinals they should all be fired from their jobs.
Personally i think all catholics should have and live in one country.. That way they can fight with each other and play their psycho games with each other and leave the rest of us alone…
To many they are the largest child rape, terrorist and genocide cult on the planet…
Quoted: “That’s why the Church is trying to block further litigation by spending millions of dollars on legislative lobbying in heavily Catholic states like New York and Pennsylvania.”
Or could it be this..?
The civil statute of limitations for child sex abuse needs to be lifted for old and new crimes. The victims deserve to have their day in court, plus it helps to expose the truth and hold wrongdoers accountable and therefore protect kids today.
Those who enable and cover up these sex crimes need to be held accountable too. Unless they are held accountable they have no reason to change. and children will never be safe within this system.
By filing a suit, this gives victims the opportunity to enter into the discovery phase, which allows them to subpoena secret archive documents and to subpoena high ranking officials to testify under oath. This is the main reason that Catholic bishops pay big bucks to lobby against lifting the civil statute of limitations.They want their secrets and crimes of cover up to stay hidden because they could land themselves in jail.
Removing the statute of limitations helps to expose the child predators, but it also helps to expose those high ranking officials who continue to cover up these sex crimes.
We wish for the full truth to be exposed so that no other child is sexually abused.
Silence is not an option any more. It only hurts, but by speaking up there is a chance for healing, exposing the truth, and therefore protecting others.
Judy Jones, SNAP Midwest Associate Director, USA, 636-433-2511, SNAPjudy@gmail.com
SNAP, Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests,
Bravo Bruce.
What is so difficult about holding institutions and their leadership “ACCOUNTABLE” for past conduct and decision-making? Such egregious and criminal decisions by leadership, regardless of the venue (public, private, religious) should be brought into the “light of day”. Their actions, omissions and commissions, destroyed lives, hearts, souls and families.
Everyone knows why the Pa Catholic Conference and the Insurance Federation spend YOUR money (whether it is parishioners’ donations or consumers’ premium dollars) to block the retroactive element of the child sexual abuse proposals offered by Rep. Mark Rozzi………they will go to any lengths and expense to keep their records hidden.
Shame on all of the leaders (mostly male) in any association, organization, professional group, etc. that would work to block past victims’ access to the legal system, to have their stories told and their voices heard.
Of course, one of the most important benefits of retroactivity in such legislation (where past victims are provided a time-limited period to file civil action) is the real likelihood that existing predators, heretofore unknown to public officials and to the public, will be identified in court proceedings as a result of past victims’ legal action.
Michael Skiendzielewski
Captain (Retired)
Philadelphia Police Dept.